UNDERSTANDING #_marriage

For two people to live together happily there must be an endless effort by the two to better understand each other.... We have lots of differences in individuals.. No two persons are the same.... Hence it is crucial for married couples to learn and understand each others temperament...

There was a case tabled: A man married a woman from a family where eating meat as one eats is a way of life, while the man in question was from a family where eating of meat as one eats is a crime., to them you must finish the food before you can have the meat... They were joined in marriage and each brougth in the usual style from their background.
#_THE PROBLEM: Whenever both are in the dinning eating, before they could finish eating, the young damsel had already finished the meat _#not even the bone was left for the guy... The man endured this for long and then decided never to continue that way..... #_Genesis of the Wahala...
#_Cut short: They were settled but it still boiled down to the fact that the man has to understand that the behaviour had become part and parcel of his wife...   #Then the big question: What should be done

Martins Francis I